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Peer Relations

Peer Relations:
Assertiveness

Attending
Communication
Conflict Resolution
Empathy (demonstrating)  
Inviting others to participate in an activity (including)
Initiating conversations 
Joining conversations 
Joining ongoing activities
Leadership skills
Offering Help to others
Notices and compliments others
Respect 



Assertiveness

Saying "NO" to Negative Peer Pressure:
  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 217)
Reproducible    "What's Your Decision?" Activity Sheet


Ignoring Peer Pressure:  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 220)
Reproducible    "John's Dilemma" Activity Sheet
                        "Lunchroom Survey" Activity Sheet


Saying "No" to Negative Group Pressure:  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 227)
Reproducible    "Handing Peer Pressure"


Learning to Think Independently:  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 234)
Reproducible    "Peer-Pressure Situations" Activity Sheet


Assertiveness-Skill #150: (Teaching Social Skills to Youth, 1992, p 231)

Communication (general)

Introducing Yourself to Peers and Adults (Lesson 14):  (Hanken & Kennedy, 1998, Getting to Know You, p 52, lessons for grades 1-3 and 4-6)

Incomplete Sentence Blank:  Puppets are used to elicit responses to the projective test.  Therapist uses two puppets and client uses puppet.  Sentence stems are used to have the child respond to the items on the test (Knell, 1995 as cited in Kaduson, 1998).

The Conversation Game: A game that teaches children how to carry on a reciprocal conversation. (Shapiro, 2003, The Secret Language of Children, p. 280)

Making Conversation: Videotaping conversations between parent and child will help to teach him or her the rules of social interaction. (Shapiro, 2003, The Secret Language of Children, p. 329)

Finishing a Conversation (Lesson 17):  (Hanken & Kennedy, 1998, Getting to Know You, p 62, lessons for grades 1-3 and 4-6)

Paraphrasing What Is Heard:  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 35)
Reproducible    "Listening Survey" Activity Sheet
                        "My Best Listening" Activity Sheet

Attending
Ability to Listen/Participate in a Class Discussion: (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 39)
Reproducible    "Listening" Activity Sheet
Attending to The Speaker:  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 42)
Reproducible    "How Good Are You at Following Directions?"
                        "Who's a Good Listener" Activity Sheet

Mutual Storytelling Technique (Richard Gardner):
The child tells a make-believe story and the therapist surmises psychodynamic meaning and tells a story with a similar setting and characters, but with a healthier resolution.
(From Video Training Workshop:  Play Therapy for Children with ADHD, Kaduson, 1998)

Problem-Solving a Disagreement-Skill #124:  (Teaching Social Skills to Youth, 1992, p 201)

Managing Conflict:  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 137)
Reproducible    "Malcom's Conflict" Activity Sheet
                        "Decision Time" Activity Sheet

Listing Problem-Solving Steps:  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 127)
Reproducible    "You Be the Judge" Activity Sheet

Empathy (demonstrating)
Showing That We Care: (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 179)
Reproducible    "How Would You Feel?" Activity Sheet


Recognizing Another's Emotions:  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 182)
Reproducible    "What Emotions Do You See?"

Inviting others to participate in an activity (including)

Initiating conversations
Starting a Conversation (Lesson 16):  (Hanken & Kennedy, 1998, Getting to Know You, p 59, lessons for grades 1-3 and 4-6)
Joining conversations
Joining ongoing activities with peers
Joining in a group activity (Lesson 19):  (Hanken & Kennedy, 1998, Getting to Know You, p 67, lessons for grades 1-3 and 4-6)
Approachability Checklist: A checklist that helps children learn how to join a group. (Shapiro, 2003, The Secret Language of Children, p. 315)
Leadership skills

Offering Help to others
How to Help a Classmate (Lesson 28):  (Hanken & Kennedy, 1998, Getting to Know You, p 96, lessons for grades 1-3 and 4-6)
Helping Another Person:  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 55)
Reproducible    "Blue Ribbon" Activity Sheet


Notices and compliments others
Complimenting (Lesson 24):  (Hanken & Kennedy, 1998, Getting to Know You, p 84, lessons for grades 1-3 and 4-6)
Complimenting Others: (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 164)
Reproducible:      "Understanding Feelings" Activity Sheet


Respect (demonstrating)

Respecting Others' Viewpoints:  (Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities for Grades 4 - 6 and Grades 1-3, Ruth Weltmann Began, 1998, p 188)
Reproducibles    "Two Viewpoints" Activity Sheet